Bits of Life

What a (beautiful) week by Kate Brightbill

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What a week, what a week.  

First: the weather recap (in my childhood dreams, I would become a weathergirl. Good news is that in reality I didn't, because Apple products- Siri in particular- have totally messed with job security there).  

It rained- real rain- on Monday and Tuesday. I know that basically everywhere except CA gets rain year-round, but we just don't. It was very strange and kind of cozy and I wasn't sure if I should turn on some Christmas music and start wrapping gifts. It was weird.  

Then came Wednesday and I went outside early to a crazy warm, humid strangeness. I was in Haiti once, ages ago, and it felt just like that. In San Francisco. Yes, crazy but kind of awesome at the same time. I like a bit of variety.  

Now it's hot. I want to go jump in a pool, but no one in the city has a pool for the two weeks of the year that temps reach 90. 

So now that we have the weather all summarized, I'll move on... 

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Sophie has told me she prefers to be called Sophie because that's her name, not Soph. She also dressed herself in a NOT crazy outfit, totally neutral outfit this week that made her look like she was 8 instead of 4 and both situations made me feel like she's such a big kid. Then today she put polka dot red pants, a striped multicolored skirt over, striped neon shoes, and a sparkly striped long sleeved tee with a brown sweater and a red flower headband over it, and I loved it. She IS still my little girl. 

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Also this week, Brian and I went to another Ben Folds show at a sweet venue called Mountain Winery. Our good friend works & tours with them, so it was kind of a no-brainer to drive down to Saratoga and hang out on a gorgeous day and listen to good music. We got there very early, so it felt like vacation to just enjoy the grounds for a bit. (Work? What's this "work" you speak of?) Yes, it was about the most ideal Wednesday you can have.

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I'm feeling quite old this week because I've been giving that knowing, very mature "mmm" when I see quotes that I like on Pinterest. I've always held myself to a higher standard than to be the one repinning quotes and sayings, but turns out, I'm just like the rest of us. I "liked" a few and screenshot a few, and next thing I know I'm going to hit the "inspirational sayings" tab and go to town with my "quotes" pins. Ack, such a grown-up thing. But seriously when I see: "gratefulness changes everything," I actually do believe it does deserve to be bookmarked and written and framed. I'm 30 and it's showing more & more... 

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Speaking of something that should be framed... this gem may need to go in a future yearbook for these girls ("mom, what is this 'yearbook' you speak of?"). I mean, they're clearly artists, preparing to fly off to a place where they can make music and wear tutus and twirl their days away- nap and chore-free days, I might add.

Anyway, I'm sure you're aware that it's Friday and I'm in a mood and it's a good one. It's hot, (did I mention that?), and I'm wearing a dress, which Sophie lovingly pointed out to her daddy "mommy is wearing a dress because she wears enough jeans and she should wear her dress today..." which says a lot about why this blog is called styleSMALLER and not simply STYLE, because it would imply that more effort is made on my end than actually is.  

As much fun as I'm having typing the girls' nap time away, I really need to vacuum... you can probably tell from the above photo.  

Happy Weekend!  

Kate

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Date Night by Kate Brightbill

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There comes a point when you have children that you just need a date. The past couples months have been reeeallyy busy for us, and generally our babysitting hours have been spent being social, so this was a past-due date night. There is nothing like taking a moment to breathe, enjoy the fresh air, and look up and not down chasing cute little kiddos and keeping them from trouble.... and eat without bibs and spills. ;) 

I benefitted from Brian turning 30 last year, and we got to use a gift card from his birthday to La Mar this weekend. If you're going to San Francisco and need a REALLY good date for dinner, it's definitely a great option (there are a lot of great options here though... I want to make a giant list of favorites soon)! I could have eaten the "cebiche nikei" all night. SO GOOD.

We were able to chat about anything and everything and really just take our time with it all. I definitely didn't appreciate dates before children like I do these days.

How often do you get on dates? I'm always curious if once in a month- like we've had lately- is a lot or a little as compared to other couples. I really admire the people who can date weekly. It sounds so ideal.  

HERE is my little Vine video from our date (love this guy!).

xo, 

Kate

 (also, there are always simple cheap date ideas here)

Summer! by Kate Brightbill

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In San Francisco, some summer days we'll spend in solidarity with the out-of-towners, together wearing our shorts and tanks as it should be... others we will cuddle in hoodies and sip cocoa. The bottom line, though, is that it's official: it's SUMMER! 

(AND it's Friday!) 

Let's do this. Also:

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Happy Father's Day! by Kate Brightbill

I'm amazed at how my husband fathers my children... he takes them to climb trees, play baseball, kick soccer balls, and he builds forts like none other. These girls have no idea how blessed they are, but I do. 

Brian loves videos and creating videos... I'm the picture girl & he's the video guy, but I wasn't about to make him create his own father's day video, so here's my short and sweet little video for him (and I cannot get the quality any better, so you may as well watch it small! #amateur :) 

for the record: daddy loves football best, with baseball as a close second. Daddy does love burgers, and likes salad... kind of. With pizza... ;) 

Love, 

Kate

Hello, Friday by Kate Brightbill

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1. The architecture in SF is outta control. My poor husband has got to be over the millions of pictures of buildings in our photo stream, but I.can't.stop.  One day I'll put all the shots into a book and set it on my coffee table (I love saying "one day," because it makes me think I may actually get time to do it)!

2. We found a secret garden in the city, but if I told you where, then it wouldn't be a secret. I want to visit it every time I'm in that neighborhood because it's one of the most serene spots I've found in the city (...that is, until my children and I walked in. I must revisit when I have a cup of coffee, a book, and 3 hours... so maybe in 2017?)

3. I personally think that red streetcars go best with the ferry building. The green and blue and yellow ones are nice and all, but I think red takes the cake.  

4. Chubby little toddler hands are my favorite thing. 

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5. Summer is for bubbles.  

6. And flowers.

7. And lemonade stands.

8. Oh, and chalk... lots and lots of chalk.  

So it looks like we're getting into the swing of summer just about perfectly.